The cervix has more pathways to orgasm than any other part of our genital and pelvic anatomy. So why is it that so many of us don’t experience pleasure there and instead feel icky, numbness or uncomfortable there?
Completely in the dark about your sensual cervix - in your experience the cervix reminds you of gyno appointments so why would you want to go there?
Longing to experience deeper states of orgasm but you’re not sure how to clear tension or overcome the numbness that stands in the way.
Desiring a deep connection with your body and sensuality so that your body feels like home and a sanctuary to return to when life gets so busy.
Craving more internal sensitivity and responsiveness so sex with a lover is deep and blissful.
Unable to express your needs, desires and boundaries so instead you go along with whatever is offered and never get to experience what else could be possible.
This is a powerful time to be a woman. Never before has there been such a drive to understand and claim ourselves as sensual and sexual beings. And if you’re reading this, you’re on the leading edge. Because when it comes to the cervix, it is largely ignored by the mainstream as part of our orgasmic anatomy.
You see, by connecting with, and reclaiming this largely ignored and medicalised part of your sexual anatomy, you commit a radical act of self love and empowerment. You begin to address all the internal tension that stands in the way between you and deep orgasmic states.
Imagine clearing space for deeply connected and sensate sex as opposed to getting off for the sake of release. Once you go through a journey of cervical awakening, you’re ready for MORE simply because the cervix doesn’t settle for crumbs.
You’re more available to RECEIVE through your body, because when you love yourself in this way, what you believe you deserve increases. Finally you can ask for touch, more time and even more money without apology.
You feel grounded, clear and sovereign. You see, working with your deep core brings you home to yourself and your body. Science proves that cervical stimulation shifts your mood but we don’t need science to tell us that!
Finally you have the tools and confidence to RELAX into pleasure because the cervix doesn’t respond well to sex with an agenda. There’s no pressure. Just you, your sensations and a whole lot of love.
When it comes to the cervix, it’s orgasmic capacity remains largely unacknowledged by the medical community. And so it is frequently cut or lasered, or pried open at births (most doctors will tell you the cervix is not supposed to feel). Not only that but it bares the brunt of rough or premature sex. (You know that eye-watering ‘ouch’ feeling?)
There is so much story held in the cellular memory of the cervix and most of us don’t even know about it.
What’s magic about the cervix is it’s phenomenal capacity for orgasm. Of all our sexual organs the cervix is connected to the most neural pleasure pathways. And in some women, the cervical orgasm offers the most transcendental orgasmic experiences of all.
The thing is, most teachings will say ‘this is how you have a cervical orgasm’ but they don’t address the fundamental issue of what’s in the way (namely, numbness or discomfort.) If you’re like most of our community, you want answers. You want to dive deep into this topic with others who also know how important this work is for all women.
So how? How do we unlock pleasure at the cervix? How do we open up space to feel even more? Well…
The step before melting into cervical bliss is RELEASING what’s in the way.
An online experience where the wisdom of women come together in community to pioneer a journey of cervical healing, awakening and orgasm.
Self:Cervix Release is a one of a kind programme that brings together the wisdom of Eastern tradition with cutting edge science to help women clear the blocks to deep pleasure.
You don’t have to feel blocked to take this course. I haven’t met one woman who hasn’t got more to clear. The path of expansion is never done.
Plus, the method offered in this programme is for life. Like yoga for your vagina and cervix. We teach you how to keep your cervix and vagina in tip top shape no matter what stage of life you’re in.
This is not a programme where someone tells you what you’re supposed to feel or tells you what is right for YOUR body. This is a journey about YOU taking power into your own hands, becoming an authority over your body… because if nothing else, this is what the cervix needs from us.
I started Self:Cervix in 2016 to heal myself.
Through a stroke of luck, I met a teacher who made me aware of the state of my cervix. I was given a practise to try and to be honest, because my cervix was numb, it didn’t do much for me. I was also stuck in habitual pleasure routines.
So what’s a girl to do? Well I started a support group for moi! Turns out loads of other women needed this work and the group grew fast.
Over the last 2.5 years we’ve had over 3000 women go through the programme. And they keep coming back to do this journey again because it feels good, necessary and important.
New science based teachings
You’ll learn the latest in teachings about the nervous system and the cervix. There’ll be a-ha moments that will leave you brimming with new info to share with girlfriends or drop at dinner parties.
Reliable methods to awaken sensation and pleasure
You’ll learn about the best ways we’ve found to awaken sensation and pleasure not only in the cervix but around the whole in the body.
More self love
Not only is the process itself a radical act of self love but we also work at un-guarding the heart so love flows more easily and the pathway between cervix and heart is clear.
Inspiration from a thriving community of women like you
You’ll feel safe and supported within our Self:Cervix group. Surround yourself by wise women and ask them anything (or be one yourself).
Lifetime access to the content
Self:Cervix is a constantly evolving work as we learn new things. We are now onto version seven! You get the benefit of receiving new updates to the content. You also have ongoing access so you can return to the work – because almost everyone who does this work revisits it each time we run.
We’ve found one of the main blocks to orgasmic expansion is the time spent in our heads. Sometimes can’t do much about this but it is INCREDIBLY important to take some time each day to connect with your body. Why? Because when you disconnect from your body, your stress levels are raised you do not feel grounded, you definitely don’t feel sensual – libido flies out the window and self worth suffers. When you ARE in touch with your cervix and sensuality, our life force energy, you generate feel good chemicals that boost your sense of self worth. From this place of worth, we begin to feel worthing of RECEIVING - more love, more money, more touch (and the right kind of touch).
“We found that stimulation of the cervix caused a significant decrease in anxiety, depression, and somatisation. The practise also was effective in decreasing pain and increasing arousal and desire. The perception of the female genitals was more positive compared to the control group. Additionally, in-depth interviews revealed that women who took this course felt more self-compassion and empowerment.”
DR. KATHARINA WEITKAMP – HAMBURG MEDICAL SCHOOL
Just because you can do this work in the comfort of your own room, it doesn’t mean you’re alone. When you join our community you’ll have support to guide you no matter what stage of your own sexual awakening you’re on. We also are here to support you with any tech issues you may have.
A catalogue of specific interviews about the cervix. There are very few people in the world who can talk about the cervix in relationship to it’s pleasure potential and we found them. These teachers opened our eyes to the world of the cervix and formed the foundation of this work.
Ingunn Tennbakk: A Beginners Guide to Cervical Awakening (Founder of the Oslo School of Conscious Sexuality)
Fiona Soma: TRE and Sex (TRE and Tantra teacher)
Sanna Sanita: A Gentle Approach to dearmouring (Tantra teacher & Bodyworker)
Ariel Giaretto: Navigating Trauma in our Bodies (Trauma Specialist)
Louise Mazanti: Sensation (Founder of Psychosexual Somatic Therapy)
Stephanie Phillips: Holding the Feminine Sacred (ISTA Teacher and Bodyworker)
These bonus classes answer other questions that come up during the journey to create a full and thorough experience!
• A breath practise to hack the vagus nerve so you can calm down any time
• Pussy-nidra- an audio designed to generate sensation without doing a thing!
• How to de-armour the clitoris and the external body (hint: heavy use of vibrators means for many of us, our clitoris’s are numb)
• A guided practice for meeting your internal world
• A movement practise to de-armour the body and move energy
• How to do this work with a lover
There are so many nuances to this work. You never know what might come up and so over the years we’ve created emotional support videos to help you navigate your internal experience.
• Navigating shame
• How to work with anger and grief
• Radical forgiveness
• A visualisation to help you feel safe
• How to deal with Resistance
+ so much more
Starts on September 27, 2018
The results in Self:Cervix occur over time so we run this journey again and again and we encouraging you to revisit the content often. We stand behind what we create 100% so we’ll take the risk. If you fully participate in all the exercises in the first week and you’re not satisfied, we’ll give you your money back. This means you’ve watched the videos, done the practise sessions and engaged with the community and if it’s not your thing, then you’ll get your money back.
Time works for you...
If you’re looking at this work, we going to assume you’re a pretty savvy woman who’s got a lot going on. The last thing you need is another thing on your to-do list. We get it, we really do. We do NOT want you to feel pressure so we’ve organised it so you can do it when and as you can.
This is not about fixing
You do not have to feel broken to do this work. This is for every woman who is on a personal growth path. I have not met one woman who doesn’t not have something they’re ready to transform or release. The practises we offer are essential self care practises and our method is something we recommend you use for life.
You’re ready to clear blocks and open space inside so that energy and pleasure can flow even more freely. You’re in a relationship or single. The best thing is ALL this information is transferable to relationship. So you once you’ve learnt the methods in this programme you can share them with your partner and do it together. No matter what stage of life you’re in - we have women of all ages doing this work - from early 20s all the way through to post menapause. Did we mention, we teach you an essential practice for keeping your vagina happy? You LOVE to know your learning is grounded in science AND has some roots in tradition You are passionate about women’s empowerment and want to be part of this growing movement You’re on a personal growth path. You’re ready to take yourself on, dive deep and let go. You need the accountability of a group and you want to be able to do this work in your OWN time.
The work in Self:Cervix goes deep and we do our best to hold you and support you but sometimes distance work is not appropriate OR we’ve found some people aren’t ready for support. This is not for you if: You have serious sexual trauma that you have not addressed You have serious medical trauma and you are still in the shock phase. You are stuck in a victim mentality. We believe women are powerful and we can use our past to become stronger and more determined to rise. You have no interest in personal growth or transformation. You cannot work a computer or you do not have good internet.