We are a community dedicated to revolutionising the way the cervix is viewed by the medical profession, by science and sex educators. We are a global network of practitioners, teachers, learners and lovers devoted to healing and exploring the orgasmic potential of the cervix.
Most don’t realise the cervix is capable of feeling exquisite pleasure. It has long been medicalised or ignored.
But the cervix is connected to three sets of nerves; more than any other organ in the pelvis. And yet for most women it is the least sensate. Or it feels uncomfortable when touched. Strange right? Most innervated yet least sensate?
Doctors and sex therapists write this off as ‘normal’. This normalisation of numbness allows doctors to justify brutal medical procedures that affect a woman’s sexual response.
Numbness and pain may be common, but it is not ‘normal’.
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“This journey began in 2015 when I was living in Bali. After a relationship ended, I put my things into storage, left my job and set off on a healing journey. I knew something was happening in my pelvis. I felt so tense. My friend, a clinical pilates instructor, looked at me and said it was like my muscles were closing in. My body was reacting in response to the trauma of the past year. It was saying no.
I had a de-armoring session with a Tantric bodyworker, Matt Schwenteck. In that session I discovered so much pain in my pelvis and also, to my surprise, I had a completely numb cervix. As a sexologist and sex nerd, I know the cervix to be a powerful place of pleasure so I was determined to bring it back to life.
I created the first iteration of Self:Cervix with Shae Elise Allen as a result. After eight months of work, play and exploration, my cervix woke up and my orgasmic capacity shifted tremendously.
Today, I’m joined by 1,500 other women who are all interested in healing, learning and exploring the powerful and magical gateway of the cervix. In this work we are all teachers for each other.”
Heal and awaken the cervix – releasing tension and blocks in order to feel more pleasure and ultimately orgasm.
Deepen self love and respect by claiming ownership of the whole body through pleasure resulting in satisfying and nourishing sexual experiences.
Create a culture of empowered consent which includes – asking for what you want, upholding limits and boundaries, giving within limits and taking action for our own pleasure without shame.
Well what can we say about Matt? If it wasn’t for Olivia’s chance meeting with Matt, this programme would never have been made. Matt gave Olivia her original teaching on how to heal her own cervix and Olivia went on to share these teachings with others. We love Matt forever. Aside from that, he’s a masterful bodyworker, long time student of the Wheel of Consent and now runs the School of Consent.
Self:Cervix would not function if not for the incredible support and gentle touch that Robyn offers to Olivia and the community. She is Olivia’s right hand woman in many ways and we love her expertise on consent. She has the most conscious conversations EVER! She is a transformational leadership and empowerment coach and facilitator. She helps people find their authentic truth by connecting back to the body and sexuality. Robyn’s desire is for individuals to be able to identify, value and ask for what they want from the bedroom to the boardroom.
Everyone needs a Kylie on their shoulder. Kylie is an astute, conscious business woman who believes in the power of community and peer learning. Not only that but she’s steeped in feminine wisdom – a brilliant combo.
Mangala is a bit of a legend as far as we’re concerned. She is so authentic and really walks her talk. She gives generously to Self:Cervix despite having her own endeavours happening too! She is founder of MysticSex.com, facilitates Tantric rituals and workshops and is a Tantric coach and bodyworker. She teaches worldwide, primarily in Australia, Thailand, USA, India and Mexico. She places a strong emphasis on rituals and goddess practices and brings the sacred into all elements of her life and teachings.